{"id":8142,"date":"2011-04-08T17:04:29","date_gmt":"2011-04-08T09:04:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/teresakok.com\/?p=8142"},"modified":"2011-04-08T17:04:29","modified_gmt":"2011-04-08T09:04:29","slug":"malaysiakini-outraged-women-tell-ibrahim-theyre-no-sex-toy-8-april-2011","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/teresakok.my\/?p=8142","title":{"rendered":"MalaysiaKini, Outraged women tell Ibrahim they&#8217;re no &#8216;sex toy&#8217;, 8 April 2011"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Glad to see that many right-thinking Malaysians are speaking up to condemn sexist MPs.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/malaysiakini.com\/news\/160963\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/malaysiakini.com\/news\/160963<\/a><br \/>\n<strong><br \/>\nOutraged women tell Ibrahim they&#8217;re no &#8216;sex toy&#8217;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Apr 8, 11 1:19pm<\/p>\n<p>Ibrahim Ali&#8217;s sexist remarks in Parliament yesterday has drawn fury from women scorned across the country.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/media1-cdn.malaysiakini.com\/336\/06f741c6984fe40467bbb2302322586a.jpg\" alt=\"ibrahim ali kerdau bn ceramah\" width=\"233\" height=\"217\" align=\"right\" \/><br \/>\nWomen&#8217;s Aid Organisation chief Ivy Josiah said Ibrahim&#8217;s comments were unacceptable for a parliamentarian.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I  am appalled as he equates women to being a sex toy and what is worse is  that he uses religion to try and justify his position,&#8221; she told <em>AFP<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The comments not only show that Ibrahim Ali (<em>right<\/em>) is a Malay supremacist but a male supremacist as well.&#8221;<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nRights  group Tenaganita, who monitors issues of human trafficking and abuse,  said such sentiments were one of the causes of human trafficking in the  country.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Because people like Ibrahim  Ali believe it is their right to get sex anytime from their wives, or  otherwise seek it from elsewhere, that&#8217;s why you have a growing sex  industry and we see such human trafficking cases,&#8221; senior coordinator  Aegile Fernandez told <em>AFP<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Last  March, the government launched a national plan against human  trafficking in an apparent attempt to quash its image as a transit point  for traffickers.<\/p>\n<p>With one of Asia&#8217;s  largest populations of foreign labour, Malaysia relies on illegal and  legal migrants to work as domestic servants, in plantations, factories  and to service the local sex industry.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>&#8216;He needs gender sensitivity training&#8217; <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile Seputeh MP Teresa Kok said that the Pasir Mas MP should \u201csubmit himself to gender sensitivity training\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIbrahim&#8217;s  statement reveals his deep-seated sexism which is most disgraceful for  an MP. From his statement, it is clear that he has a very low opinion of  women,\u201d said Kok in a statement calling for an apology.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/media1-cdn.malaysiakini.com\/302\/43f73f8164e7875f48db4674fceb3e00.jpg\" alt=\"selangor dap election 281110 teresa kok interview 02\" width=\"200\" height=\"274\" align=\"left\" \/>\u201cHe expects women to present their bodies to their husbands on demand&#8230; as though women are meant to be unfeeling sex slaves.<\/p>\n<div>\n\u201cHe is completely insensitive to women&#8217;s right to choice what to do or not do with their bodies.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Kok,  who is also Selangor exco, reminded Ibrahim that sexual coercian even  amongst the married was \u201ca form of sexual violence and that violence  against women (and men) is a crime\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt&#8217;s  sexist MPs like Ibrahim Ali&#8217;s that perpetuate the subordination of  women by men, and stand in the way of enacting laws which protect and  uphold the dignity of women,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>She  asked how, as an MP, he could represent the interests of his  constituents, half of whom would be female, when he has such a low  opinion of women.<\/p>\n<p>His remarks, she said, not only demeaning to women but men as well.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe  makes men out to be completely lacking in self-control, as though men  were animals. He even excuses them for committing adultery which is a  most hurtful act of betrayal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She insisted the MP submit himself to gender sensitivity training to avoid a repeat of his mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf  he refuses to do so, I urge the Parliamentary Gender Caucus to  reprimand Ibrahim Ali and send a strong message to the public that the  Dewan Rakyat does not tolerate such sexist remarks,\u201d said Kok.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000\"><strong>Endemic sexism<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, the independent MP and chief of right-wing Malay NGO Perkasa <a href=\"http:\/\/malaysiakini.com\/news\/160879\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>blamed wives<\/strong><\/a> for their husbands resorting to extramarital sex.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/media1-cdn.malaysiakini.com\/84\/420120c9c99d1837eb3167754039db21.jpg\" alt=\"jag anti sexist parliament protest 150507 mca women\" width=\"260\" height=\"242\" align=\"right\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This  was during his supplementary question during Question Time in  Parliament, asking the Department of Islamic Development Malaysia  (Jakim) what they were doing about educating wives on their  &#8216;responsibilities&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Using Islam as  his defence, the Pasir Mas MP said, &#8220;In Islam, wives are supposed to  stop everything to fulfill their husband&#8217;s demands.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This is not the first time BN lawmakers have clashed with women&#8217;s groups; last month another notorious parliamentarian <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/malaysiakini.com\/news\/159896\" target=\"_blank\">Bung Moktar<\/a> <\/strong>claimed women were &#8220;slow&#8221; at the wheel and &#8220;oblivious&#8221; on the roads.<\/p>\n<p>The remarks sparked All Women&#8217;s Action Society (Awam) to <a href=\"http:\/\/malaysiakini.com\/news\/160013\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>call for this resignation<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Glad to see that many right-thinking Malaysians are speaking up to condemn sexist MPs. &nbsp; http:\/\/malaysiakini.com\/news\/160963 Outraged women tell Ibrahim they&#8217;re no &#8216;sex toy&#8217; Apr 8, 11 1:19pm Ibrahim Ali&#8217;s sexist remarks in Parliament yesterday has drawn fury from women scorned across the country. 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